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		<description><![CDATA[Inside the Magic Kingdom Several years ago I read the book “Inside the Magic Kingdom” by Tom Connellan for a project I was working on for a client. Recently I picked up the book again and had a hard time putting it down!  There is so much wisdom in this book on how to provide [...]]]></description>
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<h1>Inside the Magic Kingdom</h1>
<p><a href="http://www.chapters.indigo.ca/books/Inside-Magic-Kingdom-Seven-Keys-Tom-K-Connellan-Tom-Connellan/9781885167231-item.html?ikwid=inside+the+magic+kingdom&amp;ikwsec=Books" target="_blank"><img class="alignleft  wp-image-4482" style="border: 0pt none; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 5px;" title="synchronized walk the talk, same way of doing things" src="http://www.athenatrainingandconsulting.com/wp-content/uploads/synchronized-walk-the-talk-same-way-of-doing-things-300x216.jpg" alt="synchronized walk the talk, same way of doing things" width="300" height="216" /></a>Several years ago I read the book “<a title="Inside the Magic Kingdom" href="http://www.google.com.ph/imgres?q=Inside+the+Magic+Kingdom&amp;um=1&amp;hl=en&amp;sa=N&amp;biw=1024&amp;bih=475&amp;tbm=isch&amp;tbnid=Xo4MRoIZlepEOM:&amp;imgrefurl=http://www.betterworldbooks.com/inside-the-magic-kingdom-id-1885167237.aspx&amp;docid=VxH9z_Q8pNn7OM&amp;imgurl=http://images.betterworldbooks.com/188/Inside-the-Magic-Kingdom-Connellan-Thomas-K-9781885167231.jpg&amp;w=252&amp;h=400&amp;ei=JTEZT9GUL7GImQXd14GSCg&amp;zoom=1" target="_blank">Inside the Magic Kingdom</a>” by <a title="Tom Connellan" href="http://www.tomconnellan.com/" target="_blank">Tom Connellan</a> for a project I was working on for a client. Recently I picked up the book again and had a hard time putting it down!  There is so much wisdom in this book on how to provide extraordinary customer experiences every time.  For the next seven weeks I am going to share with you the seven lessons outlined in this book.  At the back of the book Tom has provided questions for each lesson that each reader can apply to their own situation and I will include them as well. The book gives the readers permission to use the information provided proper credit is given to the author. </p>
<p>Continued from previous week&#8230;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">LESSON 3</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>Everyone walks the talk.</em></strong></p>
<p>If you are like me you have most likely had the experience of going into a business and received inconsistent treatment.  They use the term “<a title="aggressively friendly, a dog behaviourist observation" href="http://www.k9cola.org/articles.shtml" target="_blank">aggressively friendly</a>” at Disney.  All staff are trained to stop everything when they see a guest in need. (I wish the staff would do that at the home reno store when I am standing there looking confused and not sure what to do – lol)  The Disney culture says <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Everyone</span> <a title="walk the talk" href="http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/walk_the_talk" target="_blank">walks the talk </a>always!  The real point here is more about the <span style="text-decoration: underline;">way </span>you do your job.  Think about this statement: “Every time a customer comes in contact with your company, you have an opportunity to create value.  Capitalize on that opportunity and you win.  Waste it and you lose&#8230;it is a simple as that!  The <strong><em>guest</em></strong> is always in charge.</p>
<p><strong><em>Questions for discussion with your team:</em></strong></p>
<ol start="1">
<li>Think about the <strong><em>way</em></strong> people do their jobs here.  Could we adapt the “aggressively friendly” concept to our company’s environment?</li>
<li>How might we expand customer service from a department to a tradition?</li>
<li>How could we individually do an even better job of “<a title="walking the talk" href="http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/walk_the_talk" target="_blank">walking the talk</a>” than we do right now?</li>
<li>What does “walking the talk” mean around here?</li>
<li>How would a customer’s experience be different if everyone here “walked the talk?”</li>
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<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"> </span></strong></p>
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<h1>Inside the Magic Kingdom</h1>
<p><a title="horse head hitching post, pay attention to details" href="http://www.amazon.ca/Inside-Magic-Kingdom-Disneys-Success/dp/1885167237" target="_blank"><img class="alignleft  wp-image-4475" style="border: 0pt none; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 5px;" title="horse head hitching post, pay attention to details" src="http://www.athenatrainingandconsulting.com/wp-content/uploads/horse-head-hitching-post-pay-attention-to-details-201x300.jpg" alt="horse head hitching post, pay attention to details" width="201" height="300" /></a>Several years ago I read the book “<a title="Inside the Magic Kingdom" href="http://www.amazon.ca/Inside-Magic-Kingdom-Disneys-Success/dp/1885167237" target="_blank">Inside the Magic Kingdom</a>” by <a title="Tom Connellan" href="http://www.tomconnellan.com/" target="_blank">Tom Connellan</a> for a project I was working on for a client. Recently I picked up the book again and had a hard time putting it down!  There is so much wisdom in this book on how to provide extraordinary customer experiences every time.  For the next seven weeks I am going to share with you the seven lessons outlined in this book.  At the back of the book Tom has provided questions for each lesson that each reader can apply to their own situation and I will include them as well.  The book gives the readers permission to use the information provided proper credit is given to the author. </p>
<p>Continued from previous week&#8230;</p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">LESSON 2</span></strong></p>
<h4><strong><em>Pay fantastic attention to detail.</em></strong></h4>
<p>I know from personal experience when a company I am involved with pays attention to the smallest details it makes a huge difference for me.  It truly permeates everything. At Disney, the horse headed pitching posts that line the streets are repainted every night, no exceptions. Not only are they repainted every night, the starting time is based on the temperature and humidity to make sure the paint is dry by the next morning.  Truly attention to detail is part of the Disney culture and this is only one small of example.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong><em>Questions for discussion with your team:</em></strong></p>
<ol>
<li>What details get in the way of our being easy to do business with?</li>
<li>What details could be improved to keep our customers coming back?</li>
<li>What details in our workplace could become <a title="hitching posts" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hitching_post" target="_blank">hitching posts</a>?</li>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2012 05:01:21 +0000</pubDate>
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<h1>Inside the Magic Kingdom</h1>
<p><a title="Inside the Magic Kingdom, Tom Connellan" href="http://www.chapters.indigo.ca/books/search?keywords=inside%20the%20magic%20kingdom&amp;s_campaign=goo-Books%20By%20Title-E&amp;s_kwcid=TC|5777|inside%20the%20magic%20kingdom||S|e|6638857742&amp;gclid=CODL0s6jiq4CFQe8KgodInB95g" target="_blank"><img class="alignleft  wp-image-4470" style="border: 0pt none; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 5px;" title="Inside the Magic Kingdom Connellan Thomas K 9781885167231" src="http://www.athenatrainingandconsulting.com/wp-content/uploads/Inside-the-Magic-Kingdom-Connellan-Thomas-K-9781885167231-189x300.jpg" alt="Inside the Magic Kingdom Connellan Thomas K 9781885167231" width="132" height="210" /></a>Several years ago I read the book “<a title="Inside the Magic Kingdom" href="http://www.amazon.ca/Inside-Magic-Kingdom-Disneys-Success/dp/1885167237" target="_blank">Inside the Magic Kingdom</a>” by <a title="Tom Connellan" href="http://www.tomconnellan.com/" target="_blank">Tom Connellan</a> for a project I was working on for a client.  Recently I picked up the book again and had a hard time putting it down!  There is so much wisdom in this book on how to provide extraordinary customer experiences every time.  For the next seven weeks I am going to share with you the seven lessons outlined in this book.  At the back of the book Tom has provided questions for each lesson that each reader can apply to their own situation and I will include them as well.  The book gives the readers permission to use the information provided proper credit is given to the author. </p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">LESSON 1</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>The competition is anyone the customer compares you with.</em></strong></p>
<p>When I first read this concept I thought, how can that be?  In the book talks about how the same people that call your organization also call other companies and people are always comparing whether they realize it or not.  Quote from the book <em>“If someone else satisfies customers better than you do, no matter what type of business, you suffer by comparison.”  </em>Literally everyone competes in the world of <a title="Customer Experience and Customer Satisfaction" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Customer_experience" target="_blank">customer experience</a> and satisfaction.  It is the same whether you are talking about an internal or external customer.</p>
<p><strong><em>Questions for discussion with your team:</em></strong></p>
<ol>
<li>Recall a situation where you were very impresses with the level of service you received.  How did it raise your expectations of other companies?</li>
<li>How does our company’s service compare?</li>
<li>Who are our direct competitors?</li>
<li>Who else might our customers compare us with?</li>
<li>What does that suggest about how we might change the way we do business?</li>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why gratitude makes you a better manager? By Wendy Woods &#160; Makes you more empathetic.  People with a strong disposition toward gratitude have the capacity to be empathic and to take the perspective of others (McCullough, Emmons, &#38; Tsang, 2002). Empathy is one of the skills required for Emotional Intelligence which accounts for 80% of [...]]]></description>
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<h1><strong>Why gratitude makes you a better manager?</strong> <strong></strong></h1>
<p><strong>By Wendy Woods</strong></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><a href="http://www.athenatrainingandconsulting.com/wp-content/uploads/gratitude-geniune-praise-appreciation.jpg"><img class="alignright  wp-image-4303" style="border: 0pt none; margin-left: 10px; margin-bottom: 5px;" title="gratitude or geniune praise and appreciation" src="http://www.athenatrainingandconsulting.com/wp-content/uploads/gratitude-geniune-praise-appreciation-300x277.jpg" alt="gratitude or geniune praise and appreciation" width="300" height="277" /></a><strong>Makes you more empathetic.  </strong>People with a strong disposition toward gratitude have the capacity to be empathic and to take the perspective of others (McCullough, Emmons, &amp; Tsang, 2002). Empathy is one of the skills required for Emotional Intelligence which accounts for 80% of success at work.</p>
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<p><strong>Leads to greater optimism and positive emotions within your team</strong>.  Grateful people report higher levels of positive emotions and optimism (Emmons &amp; McCullough, 2003) which is easily transferred to others by mood contagion (Roland Neumann,2000)</p>
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<p><strong>Leads to greater employee loyalty</strong>. In 2001 Michael McCullough found that interactions that involved an expression of gratitude encouraged the other person to behave in a loyal manner.  In a recent survey carried out by Susan M. Heathfield, fifty-five percent of the respondents said that praise and attention from their supervisor would make them feel as if the company cared about them and their well-being.</p>
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<h2><strong>Quick &amp; simple ways to express gratitude to your employees:</strong></h2>
<p><strong>Say thank you every opportunity you get</strong>.  It seems like such an obvious expression of gratitude but it&#8217;s often forgotten or overlooked. Employees tell me time and again that all they want from their boss, and colleagues, is a simple thank you. Make sure everyone hears those words from you often.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>Praise their contributions</strong>. Everyone appreciates genuine praise regardless of their position and level of success. Make sure your employees know you are grateful for their contributions; don&#8217;t keep them wondering.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>Let employees know that their work contributes to the organization&#8217;s overall success</strong>. The need to feel connected to a larger cause is very important to most employees.  Believing that &#8220;the mission or purpose of my company makes me feel my job is important&#8221; is a primary motivator, according to the authors of 12: The Elements of Great Managing by James Harter and Rodd Wagner.</p>
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<p><em>&#8220;Gratitude is the best attitude.&#8221;</em>  ~ Author Unknown</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Coaching for Accelerated Results by Cindy Stradling CSP, CPC As a coach I work with many people who are employed in a variety of jobs.  I coach salespeople, entrepreneurs, executives, managers and homemakers.  Everyone’s situation is unique and yet similar.  The people I work with have one thing in common, they have areas of their [...]]]></description>
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<h1><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Coaching for Accelerated Results</span></strong></h1>
<p>by Cindy Stradling CSP, CPC</p>
<p><a href="http://www.athenatrainingandconsulting.com/wp-content/uploads/plan-to-work-and-work-the-plan.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-4291" style="border: 0pt none; margin-left: 10px; margin-bottom: 5px;" title="plan to work and work the plan" src="http://www.athenatrainingandconsulting.com/wp-content/uploads/plan-to-work-and-work-the-plan-300x300.jpg" alt="plan to work and work the plan" width="300" height="300" /></a>As a coach I work with many people who are employed in a variety of jobs.  I coach salespeople, entrepreneurs, executives, managers and homemakers.  Everyone’s situation is unique and yet similar.  The people I work with have one thing in common, they have areas of their lives that do not work as well as they would like.  I love working with people as they create their goals and work week by week to achieve them.  Sometimes there is a misconception initially where the coachee thinks the coach is going to tell them what to do.  I explain to them that in coaching, the coach asks questions so the coachee can arrive at their own conclusions and discover their own insights.  The real coaching is in holding the coachee accountable to produce the results they say they want in their lives, even when they don’t feel like doing the work they committed to.  I have included below an outline of what coaching is, what it isn’t and the roles and commitments of both the coach and the coachee.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h2 align="left"><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">What is a Coach?</span></em></h2>
<p>Professionals in all sectors require a coach for many reasons.  One-on-one coaching is a powerful way to support people to provide objective analysis, constructive support and accountability so they can achieve the goals they set for themselves.</p>
<p>Your coach is your champion and provides a structure to hold you accountable to do what you say you are going to do even when you don’t feel like it.  In other words support you to “Plan your work and Work your Plan.”</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h4><strong><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">What a coach does</span></em></strong><strong><em>:</em></strong></h4>
<ul>
<li>Mirroring-reflecting back</li>
<li>Listening without judgment and beyond what they say (listen from the place of their commitment)</li>
<li>Ask hard powerful reflective questions to help the client gain clarity</li>
<li>Hold client accountable by telling the truth and by endorsing and validating them</li>
<li>Create a safe environment</li>
<li>Help client identify strengths and possible blind spots</li>
<li>Partner with the client – celebrate their successes</li>
<li>Conduct all interactions with complete confidentiality</li>
<li>Does not council (i.e. legal)</li>
</ul>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h4><strong><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">What the client does:</span></em></strong></h4>
<ul>
<li>Set goals and be goal oriented</li>
<li>Does the assigned homework and projects</li>
<li>Honest and tells the truth</li>
<li>Willingness to be coachable and move forward with their commitments</li>
<li>Prep-work – Coaching Call Prep Form</li>
<li>Willingness to move through fears and be open to change</li>
<li>Commitment to the process</li>
</ul>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h2><em>Commitments of the Coaching Program</em></h2>
<p><strong><em> My commitment as your personal coach: </em></strong>I will exercise the highest degree of professionalism, integrity and honesty.  I am committed to your success.  I at all times with maintain the highest ethical standards and diligently respect your confidentiality.</p>
<p><strong><em>Your commitment as my Client:</em></strong>  I request that you also bring a high degree of professionalism, integrity and honesty to your coaching sessions.  I request that you be open to new possibilities, fresh ideas and unique ways of approaching solutions.  I request that you be accountable and committed to producing your results.  Foremost, be prepared to have fun and enjoy the coaching.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h2><em>Getting the Most from Your Coach</em></h2>
<ul>
<li>Lead our session, know what you want.  The Coaching Call Prep Form is designed to assist you to do so.(sent in a separate file along with this agreement)</li>
<li>I am professionally trained to help you discover your own answers; I do not tell you what to do.  Use me as a resource, not as an answer.  Said another way, I will support you with all of the resources, training and experience I have, but ultimately only you are responsible for getting the results you want.</li>
<li>Enjoy our calls, personal and professional development is fun.</li>
<li>Be fully human and communicate authentically, I respect your needs.</li>
<li>Make sure you are fully heard and have the courage to express yourself.</li>
<li>Double your level of willingness.</li>
<li>Be prepared to be challenged, raise your standards, redesign your time, remove all sources of stress from your life, change your behaviors and discover more about yourself.</li>
</ul>
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<h1><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Everyone Makes a Difference</span></strong></h1>
<p>by Cindy Stradling CSP, CPC</p>
<p><a href="http://www.athenatrainingandconsulting.com/wp-content/uploads/typewriter.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-4282" title="typewriter" src="http://www.athenatrainingandconsulting.com/wp-content/uploads/typewriter-300x168.jpg" alt="typewriter" width="300" height="168" /></a>In addition to sales and presentation skills programs, I periodically deliver programs that are designed to support employees with the tools to deliver exceptional customer service.  It is surprising to me sometimes how little it takes sometimes to make a difference for people.  I usually include a exercise that includes the following paragraph that I found in the book “Inside the Magic Kingdom” by Tom Connellan:</p>
<p align="center"><strong>XVXRYONX MAKXS A DIFFXRXNCX</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 60px; text-align: left;">Somxtimxs I gxt to thinking that what I do doxsn’t mattxr.  But whxn I start thinking that way, I rxmxmbxr my old typxwritxr.  Most of thx kxys workxd finx most of thx timx.  But onx day, onx of the kxys stoppxd working althogxthxr.  And that rxally mxssxd xvxrything up.  So whxn I’m txmptxd to say I’m only onx pxrson, it won’t makx a diffxrxncx if I don’t do this quitx right, I rxmxmbxr my old typxwritxr.  Thxn I say to mysxlf “I am a kxy pxrson and nxxdxd vxry much.</p>
<p>Often after we read this paragraph I ask everyone what it means to them.  I get varied responses and they all agree with the message that everyone makes a difference.  Usually the groups are small enough to have everyone go around the room and tell each other why they are important and what they appreciate most about each other.  In many instances I can see that people are moved by what they are acknowledged for.  I have had people come up to me after the program is over and say they were surprised (and delighted) to know they were appreciated.</p>
<p>We will debrief this session with some creative ways that people can acknowledge each other on an ongoing basis, and these are some of the suggestions:</p>
<ul>
<li>Thank you notes when someone does something special</li>
<li>Buy a coffee (or tea, soft drink) for someone who has helped you</li>
<li>Have candy or treats available for spontaneous acts of kindness</li>
<li>Compliment when you see someone doing something great</li>
<li>Send an email to a person’s boss telling them of something special colleague did</li>
<li>Have a mascot (appropriate to the organization and culture) that is awarded weekly to the person who went the extra mile the most</li>
</ul>
<p>The take away from this short exercise is to acknowledge each other for even the small things and this will go a long way to building a supportive team culture.  I encourage everyone to look for ways to acknowledge each other everyday.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Leadership Training I have conducted many assessments since the start of Athena Training and Consulting in 2005 and there are some common outcomes that are desired from Leadership training.  Here are 7 areas where I have found organizations want training and coaching for their leaders so they can build powerful teams. &#160; Organizations and Employees [...]]]></description>
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<h1>Leadership Training</h1>
<p><a href="http://www.athenatrainingandconsulting.com/wp-content/uploads/leadership-training.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-4194" style="border: 0pt none; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 5px;" title="leadership training" src="http://www.athenatrainingandconsulting.com/wp-content/uploads/leadership-training.jpg" alt="leadership training" width="330" height="364" /></a>I have conducted many assessments since the start of Athena Training and Consulting in 2005 and there are some common outcomes that are desired from <a title="Leadership Training" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leadership" target="_blank">Leadership training</a>.  Here are 7 areas where I have found organizations want training and coaching for their leaders so they can build <a title="building powerful teams" href="http://www.onlineorganizing.com/NewslettersArticle.asp?newsletter=ol&amp;article=70" target="_blank">powerful teams</a>.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Organizations and Employees want the following attributes/attitudes in their Leaders:</p>
<p>  1) Leaders who are <strong><em>consistently approachable</em></strong> – people want to <strong><em>trust</em></strong> their leaders and know they can always come to them when they need their support.  Leaders that <strong><em>deal with difficult</em></strong> <strong><em>situations</em></strong> in a timely and fair manner.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>  2) Leaders who <strong><em>listen </em></strong>and<strong><em> understand</em></strong> the employee’s perspective (this does not mean agree with them, it means the employ has the experience of being heard.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>  3) Leaders who are <strong><em>positive</em></strong>, <strong><em>focused</em></strong>, yet <strong><em>flexible </em></strong>(open to new ideas)</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>  4) Leaders who <strong><em>support</em></strong> their employees to being their best.  <strong><em>Delegating</em></strong> and <strong><em>coaching</em></strong> to give employees an opportunity to grow.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>  5) Leaders who set a clear direction and <strong><em>walk their talk</em></strong>.  Leaders who live with<strong><em> integrity</em></strong> to what they say they will do and what they actually do.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>  6) Leaders who<strong><em> communicate</em></strong> when things go well and celebrate employee’s successes – recognition.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>  7) Leaders who <strong><em>set challenging yet achievable goals</em></strong> that are aligned with the Company mission and support the success of the employees with a high level of <strong><em><a title="accountability" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Accountability" target="_blank">accountability</a></em></strong>.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Dec 2011 05:01:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Is Your Document Readable? by Luigi Benetton When you prepare a document using Microsoft Word, you’re actually doing two things: writing content formatting the content Word offers many tools people can use to automate the formatting of their Word documents, thus saving them lots of time.  But Word cannot help people who have not learned [...]]]></description>
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<h1><strong>Is Your Document Readable?</strong></h1>
<p><strong>by <a title="Luigi Benetton" href="http://www.athenatrainingandconsulting.com/alliance-partners/luigi-benetton" target="_blank">Luigi Benetton</a></strong></p>
<p><a href="http://www.athenatrainingandconsulting.com/wp-content/uploads/proofreading-readible-document-formatting-message.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-4118" title="proofreading readible document formatting message" src="http://www.athenatrainingandconsulting.com/wp-content/uploads/proofreading-readible-document-formatting-message-300x199.jpg" alt="proofreading readible document formatting message" width="300" height="199" /></a>When you prepare a document using <a title="Microsoft Word" href="http://office.microsoft.com/en-us/word/" target="_blank">Microsoft Word</a>, you’re actually doing two things:</p>
<ul>
<li>writing content</li>
<li>formatting the content</li>
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<p>Word offers many tools people can use to automate the formatting of their Word documents, thus saving them lots of time.  But Word cannot help people who have not learned to write.</p>
<p>That said, Word can indicate when writers may need to improve their content.  Aside from the fairly well-known spelling and grammar checks, Word can deliver these readability statistics for your document:</p>
<ul>
<li>Flesch Reading Ease</li>
<li>Flesch-Kincaid Grade Level</li>
</ul>
<p>Microsoft explains both scores on its <a title="website" href="http://office.microsoft.com/en-us/word-help/readability-scores-HP005186318.aspx" target="_blank">website</a>.  Turn them on and run them on a document you wrote.  It’ll offer food for thought.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>Turn off spelling and grammar checking “as you type”</strong></p>
<p>If you turned on readability statistics in Word, you might have noticed settings that let you check spelling and grammar “as you type.”</p>
<p>Turning these off may seem counter-intuitive.  But doing so makes sense if you delve into the actual process of writing.</p>
<p>Ideally, writers get into a state of flow when they work.  They build up momentum as they put their thoughts down on paper, and that momentum can carry them through plenty of writing.</p>
<p>Interruptions are the enemy of flow.  Phone calls and knocks on the door do happen, and writers can only exert a certain amount of control over those.  But onscreen interruptions?  Writers can prevent most of those.</p>
<p>(Note: Email notifications are probably the worst onscreen offenders, so turn them off too.)</p>
<p>Word’s indications of spelling and grammar problems can prompt writers to play both writer and editor at the same time.  Guard your momentum – stay a writer until you complete a first draft.  Become an editor only after the first draft is finished.  Run a spelling and grammar check once you’ve almost finished your revisions.  Chances are, you’ll work more quickly this way.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Dec 2011 05:01:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Listening for More Holiday Fun by Carrol Suzuki The holiday season brings more opportunities to practice your listening skills. Whether it&#8217;s at the office party or the family dinner, you just might find yourself sitting next to someone you don&#8217;t know well or someone you see only once a year. &#160; Why not make every [...]]]></description>
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<h1><strong>Listening for More Holiday Fun</strong></h1>
<p><span style="font-size: small;"><strong>by <a title="Carrol Suzuki" href="http://www.athenatrainingandconsulting.com/alliance-partners/carrol-suzuki-b-sc-m-ed-acc" target="_blank">Carrol Suzuki</a></strong></span></p>
<p><a href="http://www.athenatrainingandconsulting.com/wp-content/uploads/listening-engaging-conversation.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-4107" title="listening &amp; engaging people in conversation" src="http://www.athenatrainingandconsulting.com/wp-content/uploads/listening-engaging-conversation-300x199.jpg" alt="listening &amp; engaging people in conversation" width="300" height="199" /></a>The holiday season brings more opportunities to practice your listening skills.</p>
<p>Whether it&#8217;s at the office party or the family dinner, you just might find yourself sitting next to someone you don&#8217;t know well or someone you see only once a year.</p>
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<p>Why not make every conversation more enjoyable for you and the person beside you?  The two key words are ENGAGE and FUN.</p>
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<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>E</strong></span>ye contact &#8211; show the person they have your undivided attention</p>
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<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>N</strong></span>ame &#8211; use the person&#8217;s name in the conversation to give it a more personal feel</p>
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<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>G</strong></span>uest &#8211; make the person feel like a special guest by really listening</p>
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<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>A</strong></span>sk questions &#8211; that encourage the person to tell you more about something that interests you</p>
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<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>G</strong></span>ood host &#8211; focus on the person speaking, not on bringing the conversation back to you</p>
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<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>E</strong></span>cho and ask &#8211; ask a question based on something the person has just said</p>
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<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>F</strong></span>orget advice &#8211; avoid saying anything that sounds like advice.  It&#8217;s not appropriate with someone you don&#8217;t know well (and tricky even with those you do know well)</p>
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<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>U</strong></span>nbelievable &#8211; feel free to use short responses to show you&#8217;re listening, like &#8220;unbelievable&#8221; or &#8220;That&#8217;s amazing&#8221;.  Make sure your comments are sincere.</p>
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<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>N</strong></span>o judgment &#8211; avoid any response that sounds judgmental (&#8220;I would never do that&#8221; or &#8220;Why would you think that?&#8221;).  Give praise or a compliment instead.</p>
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<p>When you really engage someone in conversation by using your listening skills, you&#8217;re giving the best gift anyone could receive this holiday season.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Gifts the Seniors You Love, Will Really Love by Sherri Auger With the holidays fast approaching, it can be difficult to know what to buy for the seniors that we love.  Generally, more household items are not needed, in fact they are probably trying to get rid of stuff.  Instead, try giving them items that [...]]]></description>
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<h1><strong><a href="http://www.athenatrainingandconsulting.com/wp-content/uploads/seniors-love-practical-gifts.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4098" style="border: 0pt none; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 5px;" title="seniors love practical gifts" src="http://www.athenatrainingandconsulting.com/wp-content/uploads/seniors-love-practical-gifts-201x300.jpg" alt="seniors love practical gifts" width="201" height="300" /></a>Gifts the Seniors You Love, Will Really Love</strong></h1>
<p><strong>by <a title="Sherri Auger" href="http://www.athenatrainingandconsulting.com/alliance-partners/sherri-auger-2" target="_blank">Sherri Auger</a></strong></p>
<p>With the holidays fast approaching, it can be difficult to know what to buy for the seniors that we love.  Generally, more household items are not needed, in fact they are probably trying to get rid of stuff.  Instead, try giving them items that are practical and add value to their lives:</p>
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<p><strong><em><a title="Tim Horton Gift Cards" href="http://www.timhortons.com/ca/en/timcard/index.html" target="_blank">Tim Horton Gift Cards</a></em></strong> – with a hand written note saying you will join them once a month for coffee.</p>
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<p><strong><em><a title="Swiss Chalet Gift Cards" href="http://www.swisschalet.ca/gift_cards.php" target="_blank">Swiss Chalet Gift Cards</a></em></strong> – no cooking required, a gift we all love to get</p>
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<p><strong><em><a title="Diabetic Socks" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diabetic_sock" target="_blank">Diabetic Socks</a></em></strong>  &#8211; great for anyone with circulation troubles</p>
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<p><strong><em>Long Shoe Horn</em></strong> – no more bending over to put on shoes</p>
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<p><strong><em>Magnifier </em></strong>– makes that tiny print easier to see</p>
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<p><strong><em>Blank Cards</em></strong> – give them a year supply of a selection of various occasion greeting cards, saves them going out to buy them</p>
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<p><strong><em>Snow Shovelling/Grass Cutting</em></strong> &#8211; pay for a service cover household chores.  Gives “peace of mind” to all</p>
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<p><strong><em>Subscriptions</em></strong> – pay for their annual magazine or newspaper subscription</p>
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<p><strong><em>Taxi Gift Card</em></strong> – give them gift certificates to take taxi’s.  May really come in handy on a snowy day</p>
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<p><strong><em>Hair Dressers Coupon</em></strong> – inquire about gift certificates for the salon they frequent</p>
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<p>We hope this will give you some ideas to show you care and happy holidays everyone.</p>
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